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As you all know, there are SO many writers here on WordPress. Some have publishing deals, others have sellf-published, and yet more don’t know the first thing about grammar. The quality of the writer is impossible for you to know because no, writing a blog post is not and never will be the same as writing a new chapter in a story or any type of fiction at all. Yet all of these writers are constantly giving out advice like they’re some expert on the craft. Here’s what I think about all of the “advice” floating around the web, and specifically WordPress.
Ask for advice at your own risk. Have you read the work of the person giving you this seemingly magnificent advice? Or better, have they read your work? No to both, huh? Well then what the heck are you doing taking their advice? How can they tell you about plotting or your characters or anything at all that is specific to your writing if they’ve never read it? They can’t. All you’ll likely get is whatever happens to work for them. Even though the two of you aren’t the same person or writer. Weird.
Never take it. Okay, never is probably the incorrect word. How about very rarely. You should very rarely take their advice, unless it’s coming from some guy named Stephen King or something, then write it all down! But really, a lot of my writing blog posts ask for what other people do when this or that is happening in their writing. And I get plenty of comments and feedback, BUT ask me if I’ve ever actually incorporated something someone has told me into my own writing. The answer is honestly no. And the other aspect of this is that there are probably 5-10 bloggers who I’d actually listen to when it comes to writing advice. Can’t name them because now you can just assume that you’re one of them.
I think those two points cover what I have to say. Writing advice is all over, you shouldn’t just accept whatever is offered to you as fact. But I will still ask, have you ever taken advice from another blogger who wasn’t familiar with any of your work? Tell me why you’d do such a thing. I’ve received advice, but nothing has been incorporated as of yet. Some ideas will be used in the future, but these are a very few.
I agree to proceed with caution when taking advice. The only kind I’ll take seriously from writers who aren’t 100% familiar with my work or style is to write the kind of books I want to read. Any other advice I’ll take from my editor and trusted beta readers.
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Yep. Completely agree with all of that.
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I agree with what you say, however, if you’re after some advice – whatever it may be – and a general consensus seem to reached by the WordPress community, then surely that holds some merit?
I never fail to be shocked and amazed by many the of ‘writers’ out there, but some who do offer their wisdom on WP are genuinely helpful.
Of course, I think the advice you are referring in this post to is more targeted, as opposed to generic. In that case, yes, do think before taking what somebody says at face value.
Nice post, thanks.
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Hm. I don’t know there’s ever a consensus on anything on WordPress. Well of course there are some great writers with great advice. Small few.
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Ha! Very true. Maybe I should have used the words ‘general trend’ as opposed to consensus 🙂
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Yep. There’s always someone with a crazy opinion that no one agrees with. Haha
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Haha yeah I wouldn’t really recommend anyone take my advice seriously until I at least self publish something. Then maybe, MAYBE mull it over internally. Speaking of reading the advice giver/taker’s work, I’m hoping you started reading mine……….
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Hey. That’s not fair. I’m going to read it. Very soon.
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Yea okay ill believe it when it happens
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Ugh. It’s barely been like…five days or something.
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I’m impatient lol but take your time!
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You say that, but you don’t really mean it. You want me done reading it. Yesterday.
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I can’t think of an instance where I took a specific bit of advice on writing from WP. But I could just be forgetting. I think I just like to read opinions or preferences, even if I never take them into account when writing.
I do have quite a few pages bookmarked with good general tips, but most of the advice I take is from the books on writing that I have. And from Writer’s Digest and interviews with agents/publishers, etc. I think the only way I’d take specific advice is if I let someone read my stuff, but I don’t want to put my writing online. So, I guess I’m stuck.
Do I think people on WP have good advice? Yes, a few of them. But they’re in the vast minority.
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You’re like me. I like hearing different things but I’m not really trying to change my own thing. But I’d take your advice! 🙂
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Well, thanks! 🙂 But I wouldn’t be too hurt if you didn’t. Most of my patients don’t take my advice, and that’s why I have job security, because their not taking my advice makes them have to stay in therapy longer. If I got upset every time someone didn’t take my advice, I’d quit every job I’ve ever had. People are silly.
And you should start doling out some advice, mister! I don’t know if I’d take your advice unless you started giving advice. So get on that!
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Haha that’s true.
And I can’t do that. Cause remember I don’t know anything about plotting or setting or characterization or pacing or any of that stuff. My advice would be this, “Uh, I just sit down at my computer and a few months later a draft popped out.” Haha.
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Pfft. You’re wrong. I’m sure there are all sorts of nuggets of advice stored inside.
You know what works in a book and what doesn’t. You know what books you dislike and why. Who the heck cares if you don’t know about plotting or pacing or any of that crap? If you’re a natural storyteller, you know what works without all the extra effort.
I’m going to needle advice out of you someday, somehow.
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Hmmm. I vow never to give advice! Hahaha
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We’ll see about that…
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LA LA LA LA nope.
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Never say never…
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You just quoted Justin Beiber. Get. Away. From. Me.
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What? No I didn’t. I don’t even know any his “music.” That’s a very old saying that he must have stolen for his own diabolical purposes.
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Suuuuuuure. I know the truth.
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Ugh. No. He disgusts me.
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Liar.
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That’s me. A lover of Schubert, Tchaikovsky, country music, and the Beibs. You caught me.
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Ahahaha you know, that’s not all that odd. You should see the list of celebrities I follow on Twitter. Demi Lovato. Blake Shelton. Ariana Grande. Taylor Swift. Chloe Bennet. So random. There’s more.
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Bahaha!!! I’m sure there is. But remember that I’m not a Twitter fiend like you.
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Twitter is pretty great. I haven’t tweeted today. Until now. Cause it’s almost nap time and I have to tell everyone about that. 🙂
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BAHAHAHAHA!!! Clearly you’ll have the rapt attention of your Twitter audience with that announcement.
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🙂 a lot of my tweets are about sleep. Haha can’t help it.
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Well they always say to write what you know.
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Ha! That was clever.
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It happens occasionally.
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Have any fun work stories for me?
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Haha! Always.
Umm… let’s see. Are you squeamish about bodily functions?
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What? No. Tell me.
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Okay. This was from when I was working at the hospital. (I really hope I haven’t told you this one yet. If I have, I have tons more).
I was working in the ICU with a gentleman who’d just had a stroke and couldn’t speak or move very well. I was getting him sitting up and out of bed for the first time. He was about twice the size and weight of me, but I was used to it. I got him sitting in the chair next to his bed when he motioned something to me, but he couldn’t speak. I understood that he needed to go to the bathroom. I called for the nurse to help me and we stood him up, but we couldn’t get the commode to him quick enough.
He literally exploded out the back side, covering the chair, and floor, with his – er – intense bowel movement. It got on the walker I’d been using with him, but thankfully, my scrubs and shoes were spared.
We couldn’t let him sit in his own crap (hehe), so me and two other nurses held him up while a tech cleaned him and the floor and the chair. I’ve never had an arm and ab workout like that before.
To make it worse, one of the internal medicine doctors came in, looked at the situation and, instead of helping, laughed loudly and walked out the door. Jerk.
Just one of many memorable poop stories from the hospital.
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I’d be a horrible person if I was going to laugh at a poor old guy. Come on.
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Sigh. I have to have professional distance or it all gets to be too much. I’m really not heartless.
Now I feel bad.
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You should. You’re as evil as it gets.
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You didn’t use an emoji, so I’m assuming you’re serious.
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Yes. 😉
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😛 you’re heartless, for sure.
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You’re just not being very nice today. Sheesh.
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I’m sick. Didn’t you read my post?
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No. I would have commented if I had. Let me see
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Reblogged this on Logan Keys Fiction and commented:
Touche…
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I think taking advice and acknowledging something as truth are two totally different things. You’re right when you say that all writers are different. Just because a method works for me doesn’t mean it will work for you.
But that doesn’t mean it won’t work either. If you’re seeking out advice in the first place, why not experiment with new methods and approaches?
There’s always something to be learned, even if it’s just that a particular method doesn’t work for you after all.
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Eh. I wrote this in two minutes. Probably could have worded it differently.
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If I was near you I’d hug you right now! I agree totally to what you are saying. There are so many people that give advice and don’t have a pot to piss in or a window to through it out of. People even come to me for writing advice, granted I do have an MFA in Creative writing, but I’m still no expert. Some things you just have to take with a grain of salt. I feel moderate about this topic, because learning is re-learning. My mentor has published over 20 books both traditional and self-published. She even used another pen names for the different genres of her work. I will value what she says, but other people, no way ! This is a great topic, John.
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I don’t ever give advice. Not actual writing advice. Cause I don’t know what the heck I’m doing either. Haha
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Advice. Must always be taken with a grain of salt. Damn Stephen King for his ‘kill the adverbs’, but I trust his opinion. I take everything in moderation and I have probably taken some advice about writing, mostly try and write a little something every day, but most often than not, I just like reading the advice. Not applying it. Sometimes I find how people focus can be helpful, but in my busy life, it’s not always possible. Possibly the best advice I’ve ever gotten, from a non writer actually, is from my friend who said to try and stop every day for about 10 minutes and write in my journal. It doesn’t have to be about life, but anything. When I can, that works best for getting me centered and focused on writing a lot of the times. Great topic. Oh look, agreeing again. This must be a record.
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Stop agreeing with meeee! Then we can debate.
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Ah, so you ARE a debater. I never would have guessed. 🙂 Stop writing articles I agree with!
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Nope. I just like yelling at people. Hahaha
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I’ve noticed that too. You really really like yelling at people nice enough to comment.
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Hahaha hey! No I don’t. Okay, maybe a little. People are too sensitive. It’s not like I’m saying, “Hey, you’re a terrible person. Go die.” It’s more like, “Your opinion is stupid. Get away.” Hahaha
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It’s not that they are too sensitive, it’s just you come off a little harsh and judgmental at times…. You might not be saying “Hey, you’re a terrible person. Go die.” but your tone is a little abrasive at times. We all have our opinions, and I’m not saying you have to be super diplomatic, because, hey, yeah, it is your blog, but if you are open to comments, you are gonna have people with opinions you just don’t like. Including me. Especially me. I just don’t continue debating with you. I figure the next post will give me time to debate you again. Haha
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Eh. I can either ignore comments or lie or not. So I just type whatever I’m thinking. No one says anyone has to keep coming back. So yeah.
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Oh boy. lol I got nothing to come back with.
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An interesting point. I try not to ‘advice’ posts on my blog, as I don’t think what works for me would work for others, instead I try to ask others how they do it and get a discussion going.
It is hard to take advice form others, especially if they aren’t familiar with how you write or how you go about writing.
Great post! Something to think on 🙂
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I don’t think I’ve ever actually given anyone writing advice. I don’t think. Especially since I’m not familiar with anyone’s writing or process. I might mention what I do, but I’m never like…THIS IS WHAT YOU MUST DO. I’ll read what other people do. Just to see if there’s a good idea in there.
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I think your advice to not take advice would fall under the category of writing advice. 😉
I can’t say I agree with you. Personally, I am of the opinion that writers should continually strive to better themselves. If the advice makes sense, regardless of source, why not give it a try? A good writer should be able to put their ego aside and acknowledge when someone else might know something they never considered before. It’s not like you can never go back if it doesn’t work for you…
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Alrighty.
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I’ll start taking Stephen King’s advice on writing when he starts following it himself. Maybe. Some day, when I’m especially bored, I’ll pick up a Stephen King novel and make a list of each and every adverb he uses in a single 1000-word passage. Then I’ll post that list on my blog.
The “advice” I usually give in my own blog consists of comments (or rants) about proofreading/editing issues. I do feel qualified to say these things because I am a professional proofreader and editor. Knowing the difference between “every day” and “everyday” isn’t dependent on a specific writer’s style or genre. Using “parsec” as a unit to measure time: unless it’s in Star Wars fan fiction, it’s wrong, no matter what the author’s personal writing style.
I do agree with what you’re saying here about not taking every bit of writing advice found on the internet. I’ve seen some doozies: No one will read a novel longer than 80K words. Every novel needs a love-story subplot with lots of sex scenes. This would be better if you added some vampires. Young protagonists are always preferred. No one cares how well you can write as long as you have the most unique ideas. Don’t italicize the names of starships. Women don’t read sci-fi.
If I had a dollar for every instance of nonsense “advice” I’ve seen online, I’d have enough money to pay off my clone’s student loans.
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Good point about Stephen King. I’ve never read any of his books, just threw a popular author out there. Those are all kind of funny.
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I like to get advice from various sources — but I don’t always take the advice. It’s really interesting to collect all sorts of advice from all sorts of people, because even if the advice they give isn’t very good, just the act of thinking about why it’s bad advice is sometimes enough to spark an idea!
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Yep. Precisely what I do when writing blog posts. I know different perspectives are going to emerge, so I just read and see what I think.
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As a former journalist, I would caution before taking anyone’s advice as gospel to vet the source. Do your homework. Visit the blogger’s about page. What are their credentials? Have they been published? Do they have a degree or work in a related industry, publishing, editing, journalism, screenwriting, etc.? Check out their Twitter account too. Do they have lots of followers? Are they socially active? What do they tweet about? If it’s something unrelated to what they’re writing about, is that cause for a red flag? Not necessarily, but it’s certainly something to be aware of. There are certainly plenty of bona fide resources out there offering advice. Are they reiterating what you’ve read elsewhere? Or does the advice seem off the wall? You have to weigh all of these factors. Keep the advice you trust, toss the rest. That’s my advice.
Great conversation, John. Keep up the good work.
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Ooooh. I like this comment. Thanks for your input.
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You said this in your post:
Yet all of these writers are constantly giving out advice like they’re some expert on the craft.
Come on, now! Not ALL WordPress writers give out advice! I am a new WP blogger. I have only a few followers on my blog and on Twitter. To my knowledge, I haven’t given out any advice. However, I have quoted other writers, including Stephen King. I am a published writer, but that doesn’t make me an expert.
I’m curious. Do you feel that critiquing someone else’s work and offering feedback and suggestions is the same as “giving advice?” I have critiqued the work of fellow writers,and I’ve been on the receiving end as well. Sometimes I pay attention; sometimes I let their advice go in one ear and out the other. But if several people point out the same thing about my work, I pay attention. I figure there must be some validity to what they’re saying.
I don’t usually ask for writing advice unless it’s from an editor or a writing instructor. If it’s someone I trust, I might take their advice if I’m reading their blog, their website, an article they’ve written, or whatever. I do read a lot of writing books and articles, and I’ve learned a lot about the craft of writing through self-study. I’ve learned through reading well-written books and stories, too. Even badly-written work has given me insight.
I guess what it boils down to is that advice can be beneficial, but it can also be a waste of time to even read.
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Oh no, critiques aren’t what I’m talking about. I even said in the post that I was talking about people unfamiliar with your writing. I’m talking about the writers who post “10 Things you Must do…” They think they’re some expert when we have no idea they came to this conclusion.
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Taken in this context, the blogger makes some valid points. Feedback is essential, but never forfeit your dreams at the expense of another’s opinion…even Stephen King’s (have ya READ that ‘Dark Tower’ mess of his?) 😉
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Good advice and well taken. Having been a part of a local writing group for almost two years, I’ve had to adjust to the give-and-take of sharing sessions, as well as learning the value of a ‘focused sharing’ wherein upon finishing your piece, you ask pointed questions about specific aspects of the writing. Just asking for comments leaves you sifting through the bullshit for the gems…and there can be a lot of bullshit attitude or preconceptions that harm more than hurt…
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You’re absolutely right. At least in a writing group they’ve read your work. Their advice may still be terrible advice, but at least they’re basing their opinion in your work rather than claiming that they know a list of things that work for everyone.
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My aunt often tells me there’s a reason I have two ears, one to hear all the bull crap out there and the other to shoot it all out from. Now she wasn’t banking on the abysmal amount of space I have between the ears that made it hard for me to retain any knowledge, but I guess this answers your question anyway. You know, because I am sure you aren’t inflicted with the dismal amount of mammoth air I am between the ears 😉
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Hahaha she sounds like a smart lady.
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That she is, apparently not ALL genes are passed on :p
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Haha unfortunate for you. 😉
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Wow! I like adore the way you tell the truth … so very bluntly! 😀
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See! And everyone else says I’m too straightforward. One person called it abrasive. You get me. 🙂
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Abrasive … whaaaaat?! Whoever said that clearly missed their medication today … just saying :p No, sugar coating stuff is overrated, you’re always bound to be disappointed when true colours are revealed down the track 🙂 At least this way you know from the get go, warts and all 😀 Remember, we live on a superior knowledge plane of our own, there’s a prerequisite to get on it that so few, alas, have 🙂
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Ahahaha glad I have you to back me up. I mean, it can get lonely up here. Now I have a companion.
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What can I say, being at the top is often lonely 😀 😉 I guess it just comes with the territory when you have a prerequisite, such few people can pass the test & sands towards ultimate greatness. Now if I could just make others believe that no one, and I mean, no one is more intelligent, uniquely wonderful and, in one word, AMAZINGGGGGG!
I mean, people say that’s my ego speaking, but I just can;t see it 😉 Allusions of grandeur perhaps, but never ego.
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Hahaha maybe I agree with you. Maybe I don’t. You shall never know. 🙂
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Quit it. Seriously. Stop playing mind games with me when you know how precious the few brain cells I have are. That’s just cruel, and very unfair to those in my immediate vicinity who rely on them to get simple instructions across 😀
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No mind games. Mind games would be me saying I agree with you but then throwing a winky face in there. I didn’t do that. Haha 🙂
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Hahaha! So from now on I am going to start analysing your emoticons but your smiley face is looking suspiciously like a smirk.
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😆 I think this is more of a smirk. Haha you’re always supposed to analyze emojis. Otherwise you could get the whole message wrong!
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Haha! So, how would that be different from usual? I was born with my wires crossed 😀
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Yeah. I forgot. It would pretty much be the same. You’re doomed.
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Look, really it’s what way you choose to look at it. I mean you say doomed, I say nothing, and I mean nothing will ever quite be understood by anyone else the way my brain processes stuff. I’m unique, even if that’s what all schizophrenics say to explain what’s happening in their craniums.
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Unique? Hm. Sounds like a positive spin on something not so positive. That’s fine. Call it what you want. Haha
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Thanks, as long as I have your permission. I’m staying positiveeeeeee 😀
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Great! Positivity is always nice. 😉
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Well….advice, whether it’s for a blog, a job or a relationship…is just advice. We all need it sometimes because bushwhacking our way through that jungle called ‘life’ can be made a bit easier if we are given some handy hints. Of course, advice is good to be listened to and if it feels right for you, try it, it may work…if not, don’t sweat over it…
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You’re right.
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Thanks. But good question though.
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